As we approach the end of another year, it’s the perfect time to pause, reflect, and acknowledge the incredible journey of single motherhood that you have been on over the past year. The highs, and the lows. The challenges, triumphs, and moments of strength have shaped you into the remarkable woman you are today. You finish the year in a different position than you started it. In this blog post, let’s take a moment to reflect and journal on the past year – a year in review for single mums – the lessons learned, the personal growth achieved, and the love and resilience that represent your journey as a single mum. Let the journalling begin…
1. Celebrate milestones.
Take some time to reflect on the personal milestones you and your children have achieved throughout the year. The personal victories! Whether it’s a child’s academic, sporting, or creative success, a personal achievement at work, or a moment of self-discovery… Celebrate all the victories – big and small – that have marked your path. It’s easy to forget or dismiss all the little things, but as they add up, I hope they’ll enable you to look back on the year with pride.
2. Acknowledge challenges.
Acknowledge the challenges you’ve faced and conquered. From financial hurdles to juggling multiple responsibilities to co-parenting difficulties. All of the challenges and obstacles you have had are an opportunity for growth, and lessons in resilience, my friend. You have survived every single tough day. Write down the obstacles you’ve faced and the lessons you’ve learned as a result. Allow them to offer you insight into the growth that has happened, and inspiration to you for the year ahead.
3. Remember moments of joy and connection.
Recall the moments of pure joy and connection with your children. Whether it’s a shared laugh, a heart-to-heart conversation, a holiday adventure, or a simple family outing… Not only do these moments create the foundation of a strong, loving bond, but they allow you to feel love and gratitude for the year that has passed and remember the good times you’ve had together.
4. Explore self-discovery and unveil your strengths.
Reflect on the ways in which single motherhood has unveiled your strengths and capabilities. Perhaps you discovered a talent for time management, a knack for putting IKEA furniture together, conquered your fear of spiders, or have a newfound ability to find joy in the midst of chaos. Maybe you’ve been on a path of grieving and healing. Embrace and celebrate the incredible woman you’ve become.
5. Cultivate gratitude.
Cultivate gratitude by acknowledging the beauty in both everyday moments and the big things that have happened throughout the year. Express your appreciation for the love and support you’ve received, whether it’s been from friends, family, or within yourself. Gratitude has the power to shift perspective and enhance your overall mindset and sense of well-being.
6. Look forward and set intentions for the future.
Conclude the reflection by looking forward. Spend some time setting intentions for the upcoming year, both personally and as a parent. What goals do you want to achieve? Are there any changes you would like to make? What do you want more of (or less of)? Write down your aspirations.
As you reflect on the past year, remember that every twist and turn has contributed to your growth and strength. It’s all made you who you are today, and that is a strong independent, beautiful, life-experienced woman and super mum. You are not alone on this journey. Being a single mum can be SO hard but your journey as a single mum is a testament to your resilience and the love you pour into your family. I hope this year in review for single mums enables you to embrace the lessons learned, celebrate the victories, and step into the new year with a heart full of gratitude, hope, and intentions.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
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