Author: Julia Hasche

The Top Three Tools You Need To Know For Managing Grief As A Single Mum After Separation

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Being a single mum is a challenging feat, and going through a separation or divorce on top of that can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. It’s completely normal to experience a wide range of emotions, from sadness and anger to confusion and fear. This grief is a natural response to the loss of your relationship and the life you envisioned for your family. It’s the letting go of so many things.  On top of that, there’s a good chance you’re in survival mode. And you may have been through trauma or be emotionally very dysregulated. All this whilst still getting up and driving your kids to school.

The good news is there are tools you can use to navigate these emotional ups and downs and move forward in a healthy way. Here are three tools for managing grief as a single mum after separation.Continue Reading →

The one financial improvement exercise that is better than the rest?

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Hey there, mama! You know the feeling… You’re a single mum, rocking it every day. Between work, childcare, and everything else that life throws your way, you barely have time to breathe, let alone think about something like your money story. But here’s the thing: your money story – which is the narrative you hold about money – can be a powerful tool or a hidden obstacle.Continue Reading →

The stark reality of post-separation abuse

For some women, deciding to leave a partner is an incredibly tough and brave decision to make. If it’s an abusive relationship, fear is also very present. It’s a dangerous time. But what about if the abuse continues post-separation? And what about if your previously charming or timid partner goes on a full-out attack after your separate? Post-separation abuse can occur any time after the decision to divorce is communicated. It is frightening how many women are dealing with post-separation abuse, and how rarely it is talked about.

In this blog post, I share 10 common forms of post-separation abuse, and some steps you can take if you are in this position.Continue Reading →

Setting Boundaries in Co-parenting with a High-Conflict Ex-Partner

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Co-parenting with a high-conflict partner can be incredibly challenging, leaving single mothers feeling drained, frustrated, and overwhelmed. Co-parenting, at the best of times, is a delicate dance, but when your partner is high-conflict, it can feel like navigating a minefield. In these situations, setting boundaries becomes essential for maintaining your sanity, protecting your well-being, and creating a more peaceful co-parenting environment. But it’s not easy. In this blog post, we explore 12 strategies for single mothers on how to set boundaries when co-parenting with a high-conflict ex-partner.Continue Reading →

Navigating and Channeling Anger After Divorce

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Divorce. The word itself can spark a firestorm of emotions, and anger often burns brightest for single mums navigating this complex journey. You’ve been hurt, betrayed, and uprooted. But here’s the truth: anger after divorce, while fierce, can be your fuel for transformation, not destruction.

As a single mum and certified divorce coach who’s walked this path myself, I know the intensity of anger after divorce. It’s natural to feel angry: angry at your ex, angry at the situation, angry at yourself. But I also know it doesn’t have to control you. What if you could transform that anger, not just suppress it, but use it as a powerful tool for healing and growth?

Let’s explore transformative healing strategies to navigate and channel your anger after divorce constructively…Continue Reading →