Category: Divorce Coaching

How to be prepared for divorce (10 areas)

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Divorce is a seismic life event that reverberates through various facets of a woman’s life. As a divorce coach, I often work with mums to make really hard decisions about their marriage and a potential divorce. And one key thing I always tell them is to be informed, prepared and strategic so they feel good about their choices. And so recognising the ripple effect of divorce on mums is crucial for providing comprehensive support. Let’s look at ten potential areas of impact and practical strategies to help you not just cope, but thrive in the aftermath.Continue Reading →

Why your first call after separating should be to a divorce coach

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Divorce throws curveballs like nobody’s business. As a single mum, you’re facing double the emotional turmoil, juggling kids, finances, and the rollercoaster of uncertainty. All of this can leave you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of where to turn. Our gut reaction, and often what everyone tells us to do, is to call a lawyer. Now, I’m not saying lawyers aren’t important – they are legal experts, after all. But consider this… What if there was someone who could guide you through the emotional and practical aspects of separation before the courtroom drama begins? And maybe a whole lot of legal stress could even be avoided in the process? This would save you a lot of stress, not to mention money. Lawyers might seem like the obvious answer, but for single mums, there’s another powerful ally waiting in the wings: the divorce coach.

 A divorce coach can be your guiding light through the emotional, practical, and even financial complexities of separation. And this can empower you to navigate this journey with strength and clarity. Because divorce coaches focus on YOU, the amazing, resilient human being at the heart of it all.

Here’s why you need to call a divorce coach after separating and why it just might be the single mum superhero you need.Continue Reading →

Navigating Effective Communication with Your Ex-Partner

Divorce or separation can be a challenging journey, especially when children are involved. While the relationship between you and your ex-partner may have changed, effective communication, wherever possible, is important for the well-being of your children and the smooth functioning of your co-parenting relationship. Here are nine tips to navigate communication with your ex-partner in a healthy and constructive way.

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Ten Good Reasons to Move on from your Partner or Spouse

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Ending a relationship is never easy, especially when you’re a mum. No one sets out to become a single parent when they enter a relationship and have kids. Deciding to end a relationship is a challenging and deeply personal journey, especially for mothers navigating all of the associated complexities. It is really hard to bite the bullet and end a bad relationship once and for all. As a divorce coach, I understand the importance of recognising when it’s time to move on for the well-being of both yourself and your children. In this blog post, we’ll explore ten good reasons to move on from your partner or spouse.Continue Reading →

To divorce or not to divorce? That is the question.

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As a divorce coach, January is my busiest time of year. It comes off the back end of Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve which often brings a lot to the surface. Family conflict, unmet expectations, reassing life and wants and needs, unmet goals… the list goes on. However, deciding to pursue a divorce is undoubtedly one of the most significant and challenging choices a woman may face in her life. In my opinion, it’s one of the hardest decisions a woman will ever make. And it’s often made at their lowest point possible. The journey to this decision is complex, often marked by a range of emotions, considerations, and uncertainties.

Coming to a decision point is natural in a lot of relationships. Your options might include changing your expectations of the relationship or your partner, creating a new relationship that works for both parties, or separating/divorcing. This blog post aims to help women navigate this decision-making process by providing a step-by-step guide, self-reflection exercises, and resources to help make informed decisions about divorce.Continue Reading →