Category: Family

Finding Balance when Juggling Work, Parenting, and Personal Life as a Single Mum

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Being a single mum is a balancing act that requires mastering the art of juggling multiple responsibilities. Between work, parenting, and personal life, finding balance as a single mum can often feel like a daunting, and even impossible task. At the very least, it can be very stressful! However, with the right strategies and mindset, it is possible to create harmony and prioritise your well-being. In this blog post, we explore five practical tips and insights to help single mums navigate the challenges of balancing work, parenting, and personal life.Continue Reading →

Creating new traditions as a single mum

Becoming a single mum is undoubtedly a life-altering experience filled with challenges, but it also presents opportunities for growth, resilience, and the creation of beautiful new traditions. This was one of my favourite things about becoming a single mum. My life was very restricted when I was with my daughter’s dad, and because of the nature of the relationship I was in, I constantly was in fight/flight/freeze mode and walked on eggshells to keep the peace. So creating new traditions as a single mum, was the start of a new and exciting chapter for me that really represented my freedom.

While transitioning from a two-parent household to a single-parent one can be daunting, the process of establishing fresh family rituals and traditions can be incredibly rewarding and an exciting new phase. In this blog post, we explore the importance of creating new traditions as a single mum and offer some inspiring ideas to help you get started.Continue Reading →

Single Mums and Homework Help: 8 Strategies for Supporting Learning and School Success

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As a single mum, juggling the responsibilities of parenting and managing a household can be challenging enough. Add homework help into the mix, and it can feel overwhelming. However, with the right strategies and support, you can empower your child to excel academically and foster a positive learning environment at home.

In this blog post, we explore eight effective strategies and practical tips for single mums to provide homework help and support their child’s learning journey. Let’s take a look at these strategies for supporting learning and school success.Continue Reading →

Ten top tips for moving as a single mum

Moving, in general, is a nightmare. Moving as a single mum is even worse. Especially if it’s your first move since your separation from the other parent of your child, or children.

Overall, I moved four times as a single mum, and I can say that it did get easier. The first time was the worst. It was back in 2013. My daughter’s dad and I had split up and I moved interstate with a five-month-old baby. I packed up our life in Perth, got all my furniture and belongings onto a truck, packed up my car with essentials that I’d need for the first few months (including the bassinet, high chair, pram, baby carrier, breast pump, and all the other baby items), put that car on a train bound for Sydney, and got on a plane with nowhere to live.Continue Reading →

Five factors you need to consider in your parenting plan

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For single mothers, negotiating parenting agreements is a crucial step in ensuring the well-being and stability of their children. These agreements lay the foundation for co-parenting and provide clarity on important aspects of raising children post-separation or divorce.

A parenting plan is a written record of an agreement between you and your ex about the care of the children. However, it is not a legally enforceable agreement.

If you can come to your own agreement with your ex, and create a parenting plan, it is far less stressful, not to mention cheaper than going to court for formal consent orders. However, if you and your ex continue to disagree about parenting arrangements, you may need a parenting order from a family court. You can also choose to create your own agreement and put it into formal court orders.

Whilst agreements can be oral, a written parenting plan is a great idea. This is because it clearly stipulates whom the children will live with and when so there is no confusion. It may also include religious, cultural, or educational considerations, what happens during school holidays, going overseas, domestic travel, what happens when the child is sick, co-curricular activities, and more.

In this blog post, we will discuss the five top factors that single mums need to consider when creating parenting agreements. By carefully considering these factors, you can establish a fair and effective co-parenting arrangement that prioritizes the best interests of your children.Continue Reading →