Category: Kids

Making the Most of Parenting Moments, Even After Divorce

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For many single mothers navigating the complexities of separation or divorce, the concept of “quality time” with children can feel overwhelming. I always felt that people assumed my daughter and I had so much quality time together. But it had to be an intentional and active choice. Juggling schedules, managing emotions, and facing co-parenting challenges can leave us wondering how to truly connect with our kids amidst the storm. How do we stay present when there is so much to worry about? But, creating meaningful moments with your children is possible, even amidst the challenges we face.Continue Reading →

Making Parallel Parenting Work for your Family

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In the complex world of co-parenting, some situations can be significantly challenging to both parents and, most importantly, their children. It is particularly difficult to co-parent in high-conflict situations. Navigating the shared responsibilities of parenting while also managing strained relationships requires a different solution. And one such approach that could work for you is parallel parenting. This method acknowledges the need to minimise direct communication between ex-partners, focusing instead on creating two separate but structured environments that prioritise the well-being of the children involved.Continue Reading →

Navigating the Tween Years as a Single Mum

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The tween years, typically spanning from ages 8 to 12, can be both exciting and challenging for children and parents alike. It’s a time of change and growth for everyone. For single mothers, this transitional phase can come with its unique set of trials and tribulations. In this blog post, we’ll explore some practical tips and strategies to help you navigate the tween years as a single mum and manage this transitional period with confidence. So fear not! With the right approach, patience, and a dash of creativity, you can successfully navigate your child through this important stage of development as a single mum.Continue Reading →

Five Effective Strategies to Encourage Independence and Problem-Solving Skills in Children

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As single mothers, we strive to raise confident kids who can navigate life’s challenges with resilience. There are many life skills we can teach our kids, but one of the most valuable gifts we can give our children is the ability to be independent and develop strong problem-solving skills. In this blog post, we explore five effective strategies for encouraging independence in children, empowering them to become self-reliant little individuals who can confidently tackle life’s obstacles.Continue Reading →

Creating new traditions as a single mum

Becoming a single mum is undoubtedly a life-altering experience filled with challenges, but it also presents opportunities for growth, resilience, and the creation of beautiful new traditions. This was one of my favourite things about becoming a single mum. My life was very restricted when I was with my daughter’s dad, and because of the nature of the relationship I was in, I constantly was in fight/flight/freeze mode and walked on eggshells to keep the peace. So creating new traditions as a single mum, was the start of a new and exciting chapter for me that really represented my freedom.

While transitioning from a two-parent household to a single-parent one can be daunting, the process of establishing fresh family rituals and traditions can be incredibly rewarding and an exciting new phase. In this blog post, we explore the importance of creating new traditions as a single mum and offer some inspiring ideas to help you get started.Continue Reading →