Category: Mental Health

The one grief recovery must-do that is better than the rest?

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Being a single mum can be incredibly tough. Especially, when you’re facing the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with separation or divorce. You might be feeling overwhelmed, alone, angry, scared, embarrassed, or even guilty.

Grief isn’t just for the loss of a loved one. It’s a natural response to any significant change, and the end of a relationship, especially one with children involved, is a major one. You might be grieving the loss of your dreams for the future, the family unit you envisioned, or even the sense of security you had. And you might be wondering, “Is it okay to feel sad, angry, or scared when my kids are depending on me?” The answer is a resounding YES.

Here’s the truth: These feelings are all valid, and pushing them down won’t make them disappear. It’s important to acknowledge and honour all your emotions – the good, the bad, and the downright ugly. In fact, they are a natural part of the grieving process, and pushing them down can actually hinder and delay your healing and grief recovery journey.Continue Reading →

The Top Three Tools You Need To Know For Managing Grief As A Single Mum After Separation

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Being a single mum is a challenging feat, and going through a separation or divorce on top of that can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. It’s completely normal to experience a wide range of emotions, from sadness and anger to confusion and fear. This grief is a natural response to the loss of your relationship and the life you envisioned for your family. It’s the letting go of so many things.  On top of that, there’s a good chance you’re in survival mode. And you may have been through trauma or be emotionally very dysregulated. All this whilst still getting up and driving your kids to school.

The good news is there are tools you can use to navigate these emotional ups and downs and move forward in a healthy way. Here are three tools for managing grief as a single mum after separation.Continue Reading →

Navigating and Channeling Anger After Divorce

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Divorce. The word itself can spark a firestorm of emotions, and anger often burns brightest for single mums navigating this complex journey. You’ve been hurt, betrayed, and uprooted. But here’s the truth: anger after divorce, while fierce, can be your fuel for transformation, not destruction.

As a single mum and certified divorce coach who’s walked this path myself, I know the intensity of anger after divorce. It’s natural to feel angry: angry at your ex, angry at the situation, angry at yourself. But I also know it doesn’t have to control you. What if you could transform that anger, not just suppress it, but use it as a powerful tool for healing and growth?

Let’s explore transformative healing strategies to navigate and channel your anger after divorce constructively…Continue Reading →

Why your first call after separating should be to a divorce coach

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Divorce throws curveballs like nobody’s business. As a single mum, you’re facing double the emotional turmoil, juggling kids, finances, and the rollercoaster of uncertainty. All of this can leave you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of where to turn. Our gut reaction, and often what everyone tells us to do, is to call a lawyer. Now, I’m not saying lawyers aren’t important – they are legal experts, after all. But consider this… What if there was someone who could guide you through the emotional and practical aspects of separation before the courtroom drama begins? And maybe a whole lot of legal stress could even be avoided in the process? This would save you a lot of stress, not to mention money. Lawyers might seem like the obvious answer, but for single mums, there’s another powerful ally waiting in the wings: the divorce coach.

 A divorce coach can be your guiding light through the emotional, practical, and even financial complexities of separation. And this can empower you to navigate this journey with strength and clarity. Because divorce coaches focus on YOU, the amazing, resilient human being at the heart of it all.

Here’s why you need to call a divorce coach after separating and why it just might be the single mum superhero you need.Continue Reading →

Ten Good Reasons to Move on from your Partner or Spouse

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Ending a relationship is never easy, especially when you’re a mum. No one sets out to become a single parent when they enter a relationship and have kids. Deciding to end a relationship is a challenging and deeply personal journey, especially for mothers navigating all of the associated complexities. It is really hard to bite the bullet and end a bad relationship once and for all. As a divorce coach, I understand the importance of recognising when it’s time to move on for the well-being of both yourself and your children. In this blog post, we’ll explore ten good reasons to move on from your partner or spouse.Continue Reading →