Being a single mum brings unique challenges, but it also opens the door to incredible opportunities for growth, self-discovery, and creating a life that feels truly fulfilling. This year, it’s time to focus on you and how to make the most out of 2025 – on your terms.
Here’s how to start this new year with intention, purpose, and positivity:
1. Set Clear Intentions, Not Resolutions
The pressure to make grand New Year’s resolutions can be overwhelming, and let’s be honest — most of them fall by the wayside by February. Instead of resolutions, focus on setting intentions. Intentions are about how you want to feel and who you want to become, not just what you want to accomplish.
Ask yourself:
- What do I want 2025 to feel like?
- How do I want to show up for myself and my children?
- What personal values will guide my decisions this year?
These guiding questions will help you stay grounded, no matter what challenges or surprises the year brings.
2. Prioritise Self-Care – Without Guilt
Single mums often find themselves at the bottom of their own priority list. But this year, it’s time to flip the script. Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Whether it’s 10 minutes of quiet time in the morning, a solo walk, or indulging in a hobby you love, carving out time for yourself is key to maintaining your energy and well-being.
Tip: Create a self-care ritual that’s simple but consistent. For example, start your mornings with a cup of tea and a moment of gratitude, or end your day with a soothing bath. Prioritising these little moments helps you recharge and prevents burnout.
3. Learn to Say “No” – Set Boundaries
One of the most empowering things you can do in 2025 is learn the art of saying “no.” Boundaries are essential for your emotional health and to avoid feeling stretched too thin.
Don’t feel obligated to take on every responsibility, favour, or social invitation. Setting boundaries allows you to protect your energy and focus on what truly matters, whether it’s spending quality time with your kids, working on personal goals, or simply taking a break.
4. Invest in Your Personal Growth
This year, make time for you — beyond just being a mum. Pursue your passions, interests, and career ambitions. Whether it’s learning a new skill, taking a course, getting some coaching, or investing in a creative hobby, personal growth is key to thriving.
Ask yourself:
- What’s something I’ve always wanted to do but haven’t done yet?
- What skills or knowledge can I gain to move closer to my long-term goals?
- What steps can I take to build the future I envision for myself?
Remember, personal growth doesn’t have to mean grand gestures. It’s about taking small steps toward building the life you want.
5. Surround Yourself with a Positive Support System
In 2025, choose relationships that uplift you and distance yourself from those that drain your energy. Whether it’s friends, family, or a support group like Thrive Tribe, it’s essential to have people around you who encourage you and celebrate your wins. Avoid those who bring negativity or judgment — life is too short to invest energy in toxic relationships.
If you’re feeling isolated, look for local or online communities for single mums. Connecting with women who are navigating similar experiences can provide emotional support, practical advice, and a sense of belonging.
6. Create Meaningful Traditions with Your Children
Being a single mum is an opportunity to build beautiful and unique family traditions with your kids. Whether it’s a weekly movie night, a monthly outing, or simply reading bedtime stories together, these small moments create lasting memories and strengthen your bond.
Think about how you want to celebrate holidays, birthdays, or even everyday moments. Don’t worry about comparing your traditions to anyone else’s — make them your own.
7. Let Go of Perfectionism
This year, give yourself permission to let go of perfectionism. Life isn’t perfect, and that’s okay. As a single mum, you’re juggling a lot, and trying to do everything flawlessly will only lead to exhaustion and frustration. Embrace the imperfections, the messy moments, and the challenges — they’re all part of the journey.
Instead of striving for perfection, aim for progress. Celebrate every step you take toward your goals, no matter how small.
8. Celebrate Every Win, Big or Small
In 2025, make it a point to celebrate yourself. Being a single mum is tough, and you deserve recognition for all you do. Whether it’s getting through a hard week, completing a project at work, or simply keeping the household running smoothly, acknowledge your efforts.
Create a list of your accomplishments throughout the year and review it regularly. This practice helps you stay motivated and reminds you just how strong and capable you are.
9. Focus on Financial Empowerment
Take control of your finances this year by setting clear financial goals. Whether you’re saving for the future, building a budget, or working toward financial independence, 2025 can be the year you strengthen your financial foundation. Consider seeking out financial resources, courses, or even a coach to help you along the way.
10. Let 2025 Be the Year of You
Most importantly, make 2025 the year that you prioritise yourself, your happiness, and your growth. You are worthy of joy, success, and fulfillment, and this year is an opportunity to embrace all of it. Whether you’re focusing on self-care, personal growth, or simply finding balance, remember that every step you take is bringing you closer to the life you want.
Cheers to 2025 — the year you make it all happen!
P.S. DID YOU KNOW?
Thrive Tribe – the global membership experience for single mothers – will be opening again very soon! Join the waitlist here.
PLUS You can book one-on-one coaching with Julia Hasche from wherever you are in the world!
- Do you need clarity on whether you should leave your partner or not?
- Have you just parted ways with your partner, and feeling lost?
- Have you been single for a little while now and need assistance with getting your life back on track and feeling empowered?
Click HERE to read about coaching and to hear from some others who have gone through coaching programs with Julia, and book in here for your 30-minute complimentary Clarity Call.
The purpose of the Clarity Call is:
- For me to get to know you and understand an overview of your current situation and where you are at.
- For us to establish what you need assistance with to move forward.
- To see if we are both comfortable working together.
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